How to foster self-management skills
Self-management skills, also known as executive functions are the ability to plan and execute, complete tasks, fulfill a long term goal (delayed gratification), while staying emotionally regulated. Today’s challenging educational environment exposes and compounds students’ difficulties in this area. So what does a parent when do when they see their virtual learner struggling to:
- Stay engaged with academics
- Complete assignments and/or grades dropping
- Keep their school work, desk, online resources tidy and organized
- Feel accomplished
Here are a few tips to that may help at home:
1) Modeling – kids watch more than they listen. As parents, we forget the power of leading by example. Watching you work, feeling empowered by completing a single task at a time in a distraction free environment helps. If you have quiet work, ‘heads down’ work, do that in the same room as your learner.
2) Engines are contagious – the more focused you are, the more focused they will be and vice versa;
3) Use classical music as background to help with attention and pacing. If your student tends to complete tasks too quickly, use slower music. If they take a bit long, use a faster beat to keep them on task;
4) Discuss a possible work/break cycle. How long can your student stay on task? A good rule of thumb is 30-45 min but each student is different. Use of the kitchen timer to manage expectations can prevent arguments. Breaks include movement – separation from screen time.
5) Set aside time to get organized together.
Executive Functions are the number one indicator of long term student success.
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